河西学院学报

从家庭系统理论的视角剖析农村陪读家庭亲子冲突问题,问题的根源在于家庭功能的失衡与家庭关系危机的连带、家庭成员慢性焦虑的传递与不平衡三角关系的形成、子代自我分化的需要与父代对子代的过度关注等三个方面。社会工作者可以借助家庭系统治疗模式,从关注家庭成员情感需要,提升家庭成员沟通能力;帮助家长自我成长,学会去三角化;建立接纳理解的家庭关系网络,重构健康家庭生态等三个方面指导农村陪读家庭化解亲子冲突问题。

The problem of parent-child conflict in rural escort families is analyzed from the perspective of family system theory. The root of the problem lies in three aspects:the imbalance of family functions and the linkage of family relationship crisis,the transmission of chronic anxiety among family members and the formation of unbalanced triangular relationship,and the need for self-differentiation of the offspring and the excessive attention of the father to the offspring. With the help of family system therapy model,social workers can guide rural escort families to resolve parent-child conflict problems from three aspects,including paying attention to family members' emotional needs and improving family members' communication ability;helping parents to grow themselves and learn to de-triangulate;and establishing an accepting and understanding family relationship network and reconstructing a healthy family ecology.